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submitted: Jul 17th 2008 | by: BrianT.Willie | Total views: 1 | Word Count: 364 | |

The paranoia and suspicion of a person with Alzheimer's can be one of the most difficult behaviors for their caregiver to handle. As the Alzheimer's develops and targets your loved ones memory, they'll gradually become more confused and perceive things they would have once though normal, in new ways.

It is not only their inability to not remember certain people, places and things that causes paranoia, but also the fact that they can't remember themselves as well. This combination can create a frightening environment for your loved one and they're bound to grow paranoid and suspicions of seemingly regular activity.

People with Alzheimer's will often confront their loved ones, accusing them of theft, improper behavior or even infidelity. Many times they're getting their feelings from ones they've had in the past from different people or different times.

An Alzheimer's patient confuses people, events and times and can associate an event with the wrong person. For example, maybe their ex-husband had an affair so now they believe their current spouse is doing the same.

So what's the best way to deal with all of this? The key is to meet their paranoid behavior head on with pure patience and understanding. Just know that this is going to occur, and take a deep breath. You may be offended by their paranoia, but it's not personal.

They are confused and hurt. Listen to them and just try to understand what they are feeling. Don't argue or convince them they are wrong. Just let them know you love them and you are sorry they feel that way. Let them express their ideas, but always keep your responses short and easy to understand.

To take their mind off of their suspicions, suggest another activity and focus on keeping them occupied. Ask them for help with a chore, play a game you know they'll enjoy or make a meal together. To avoid their suspicions in the future, buy your loved one two of each item they value and often lose.

Remember that this behavior will pass, but it's most important for you to just remain calm and understanding. Never get worked up, because your loved one will feed off of this energy and become more paranoid.

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