Avoiding The Work At Home Mom Blues
submitted: Jul 18th 2008 |
by: JessicaFranks |
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Word Count: 769 |
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I ran across the room as soon as the fax machine started making that piercing sound. After all, I had just put my cranky teething baby for a nap, so I rushed to turn off the machine. I wasn't going to let anything wake him up. I would, unfortunately have to call the client who had just been trying to reach me. I'd have to tell him to resend his fax after I remembered to turn the ringer off. This would cut into my work time a little, having to brainstorm with the client for a while, rather than taking advantage of the baby sleeping to get some work done.
What makes it hard to be a work at home mom? When I first began, it seemed like the ideal situation. I could get plenty of work done while the baby slept, and still get in plenty of quality time with the baby when he was awake. After all, the baby had to sleep, and I would easily be able to concentrate on what I needed to get done. That was good in theory, but my baby tended to be fussy and couldn't get to sleep unless I held him for a while. In addition, my main client was twice as fussy and needed long talks over the phone several times a day.
It's hard when you're a work from home mom. You never know who comes first ??" the baby or the client. I finally had to put my foot down one day. The client and I had just had a long conversation, so I went to take care of the baby. He seemed a little feverish, and right when I was taking his temperature, the phone rang and the answering machine called out, "Hello? Are you still there? Did you go somewhere? Hello?" That was the last straw.
That was when I had to toughen up and set some ground rules for myself. The client couldn't be blamed for taking up my time ??" after all, I was letting him. If I didn't set some limits now, all my clients would behave the same way. Everything started to run smoother when I let my customers know that work for me was set for after 10:00 pm. They could fax or email me during the day, but my work day would officially start after the baby was either in bed for the night or being attended by my husband. That would allow me to more fully concentrate on my job. It would also help me to avoid marathon phone calls with clients who just needed someone to talk to
What makes it hard to be a work at home mom? Finding time for everything. I set up a schedule for returning client's phone calls, one per client per day. It made all of use focus on the important things when we did talk, and the business became more streamlined on both ends, which was a win-win situation. The quality of my work got better, and my customers ended up actually paying less because fewer errors were made due to interruptions.
The clients settled into the new routine. I became more efficient at creating quality work in small amounts of time, and the house actually began to look (and smell) cleaner due to my increased productivity. Then my baby turned into a toddler. He quit napping in the morning altogether, opting for an extended afternoon nap. However, his activity all morning left me wiped out and unfit for anything during his nap time.
That was when I had to make major adjustments to my schedule for the second time. I had to allow time for my boy to play outside, allowing him to play freely and wear himself out a little. That way, I didn't spend all my time picking up and cleaning up behind him as he made a disaster area out of our home.
Now my boys (plural) are teenagers. I've worked at home for the past 15 years, mostly writing and editing for various clients. Newer technology has made it possible for me to work for clients I never even meet, which keeps my car's gas bill low. Older children are much more independent and don't need my constant supervision, but I still try to work at night. They may be my big grown boys, but I still like to work while my babies sleep.
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