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submitted: Aug 27th 2008 | by: ErikJ.Michaels | Total views: 1 | Word Count: 473 | |

After just breaking up, when your world is upside down, all you want sometimes is some help pulling your life back together and finding another chance with the one you love. Sadly, that kind of help can be hard to find...but you can stop looking...you've found it! Here are 3 great tips to help you better your odds of winning your ex back.

1) It may sound hard to believe, but it's actually true that separating from your ex and cutting off all contact for about a month can actually help you get back together with him when that month is over! This operates as damage control by limiting the harsh things that may be said when tempers are still high, and allows you both some time to get your heads together.

Without this valuable breather time, you'd find it pretty hard to pull things together by just winging it. It's always important to make sure you know what you're doing before you do it, or else it may have poor consequences you didn't at first expect.

2) Don't deal with breakup pain like you see in movies. Sitting around crying and refusing to live your life until someone else fixes your problems for you isn't going to work in the real world. Winning back your ex in real life needs action, it must be made by YOU!

Even though it seems unfair, like this is too big for anyone to do alone, know that you have to depend only on yourself. You can get help, and I advise you to, but your plan for getting your ex back can only have you as the one factor it depends upon to work. Don't count on your ex, don't count on your friends. Count on yourself.

3) The company of people who love and care for you is an amazingly healing thing. Just having close friends and family around can make you feel better and start to redevelop your confidence and motivation. Surround yourself with these people, it will ease your breakup pain and make your recovery easier.

Just be sure you don't take advantage of their kindnesses. They're not a resource, and they don't need to be overburdened with your problems. Let them support you as best they can just by being there for you, but don't pressure them with your problems as if asking for a solution. Remember to take charge of your own life.

So there you go...those tips could make a huge difference in how difficult this process has to be, if you really think about them and take heed. This whole thing rests with you, so you need to make sure you're going into this situation prepared. You're one step there already, take the next and form a plan to get your ex back!

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