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submitted: Jul 13th 2008 | by: VinDiCarlo | Total views: 1 | Word Count: 1003 | |

If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you'll find this letter very interesting.

But first off, let go waaay back...

Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.

She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't look away)...

She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.

Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).

I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart...

Ah, the unreachable "10," a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.

I have a lot to say about the concept of "10's," In deeper sense they are another "breed" of women, but it is on the way they think that makes them so.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.

First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more "valuable".

The only true "10" is the one that's perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

A woman knows what you're thinking and sees you as shallow.

But there definitely are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.

As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."

Let me clear this up.

You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.

First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.

Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.

The so-called "10's" has two different types.

Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.

The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.

It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.

These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.

Anything.

(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here's the good thing. If you understand The Attraction Code you will know that these women are the easiest to attract.

The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a "male 10."

You'll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.

There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you'll have plenty of "adventures" to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are bunch of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't spend another year missing something that you could've been enjoying right now.

Vin

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