Dating Tips for Men: Time Management - Part 2

It is taught to young men that their physical urges is crude and silly, and that women are just doing a favor to sleep with them.

"Doofus dad" syndrome is another societal factor that I'm going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This brings to an opinion that women are "better," and that their time is more important than yours.

If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.

But here's the thing - if you are giving a woman too much time, you won't be present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.

I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.

After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I'm only giving a smaller amounts of my time.

This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.

This make my girlfriends can't get enough of me - and I don't GIVE THEM "enough."

You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already have.

I don't recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.

Just be real with her - don't spend more time that you want. no need of games.

Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.

Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I'll have to cover in another newsletter.

It's a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.

Remember that women aren't property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.

You can't "keep" a woman by investing all your time with her.

I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you're willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.

If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.

You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.

That is why I discover and develop the Attraction Code. You can learn about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' deep within.

And there's no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are able to do that for yourself.

Vin

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