Does it Feel like WORK Meeting Women? - Part I

Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading.

I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.

Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

First off, you need to keep you conversation moving, then you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number or much better you have to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

You know what, the standards for men's behavior are much higher than women.

(Don't get me started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")

That can be debilitating, especially if you don't have an "extroverted" trait.

... I have encountered a client that has a problem of "extroversion fatigue."

I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

I would have to sit down and rest!

I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see how strange it is.

I would go home and be absolutely DEAD

... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

That things makes any sense???

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).

I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.

I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.

If you do understand any of this stuff, then probably you are working too hard in your interaction with women.

About the Author

Vin DiCarlo is a expert dating guru, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.

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