Get my ex back, learn how to do it correctly

submitted: May 13th 2008 | by: RicardoDaryans | Total views: 3 | Word Count: 669 | PDF View | Print Article

Is there a "magic" method to get my ex back, you ask? It may be hard to believe, but yes, there are words and techniques that will cast a spell and make your ex want to call you back. How cool is that? I am going to show you how to do this because it is one of the most frequently asked question from my suscribers that want to know: how to get my ex back.

"How to get my ex back" will start with getting your ex to return your phone call, IM or text message. Remember, this can be done easily, but it's just a simple formula and not a complete plan. You can learn more about that in our ebook. If you do this right, it will be the begining of a wonderfull get back together with your ex.

Ok, the first thing you have to learn is what not to say. Many people make this, so I will explain them. This will almost never work, will get you into a disadvantage position and only create a situation where you will not get your ex back

PLEAD. You get in the phone for the 10th time in the day and say "hi, please, please call me, I need to talk to you. I've called all day and haven't got an answer form you". Of course you are not going to get an answer! With this kind of call, you are only going to get pity, and pity will not help you get your ex back.

The Emergency call: "Hi, I have an emergency and I need you. Please call me". Your ex will know this is just a lie to get her/him to call you back, and maybe you will get a the call, but this dirty trick will only work once, and to your disadvantage at that. Liying doesn't help, believe me.

These common approaches simply don't work, or work opossed to what you want. If you really want your ex attention, there are methods much more effective. Let's review a simple one.

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity and Self Interest. And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work "magic" So, Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone: "Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. this is a call that is going to be returned.

Now, Before you call you need to do the "Set Up", which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing, but needs to be plausible. Think about the times you spent togheter, when she/he pointed something about you, or gave you an advice or maybe let you talk when you needed it most. Surely there are some good things you can think about. But more importantly, Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out BEFORE you call. If you don't, you will get the call back, and date with your ex, but no more than that and you will be back to square one.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay? What I am saying is: What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Using this simple technique, you will have your ex calling you back, but you have to do more to get her/him back for real.

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