How to Touch a Woman You Just Met

We've all had the typical scenario. We walk up to an attractive lady, make polite conversation, maybe handshake, and talk standing two feet apart. After a little bit, she excuses herself, and you ask for her number. She says no.

What went wrong?

In many cases, you just didn't touch her early enough. We're taught from a young age to be respectful and not "grope" a woman or start pawing her like a drunk animal. After all, aren't there a lot of sexual harassment suits these days?

While it's always important to keep your hands off women in the workplace, the bar is a completely different environment. In a bar or club, it is not considered harassment to affectionately touch a woman you just met. Even if you are "over-gropey," the worst that happens is she excuses herself and forgets about it ten minutes later.

In fact, the first few minutes are crucial because if you don't touch her then, it becomes a LOT more difficult to do it later. If you start trying to get touching going later on, it can feel very awkward, so start early.

When you go up to woman and introduce yourself, put your hand on the girls shoulder. If there are two or more women, put your hands on the two closest women in the group. As you're talking keep touching as you gesture and make a point. If a girl says something you disagree with, you can playfully *LIGHTLY* push her away.

When you start off touching like this, you are perceived as a generally touchy-feely guy who does this all the time. This gets women very comfortable with your touch early on, and makes it a lot easier to take things to a higher physical level later in the night.

In a trendy bar or club, you can take this even farther, and get some more sexual touching going on. Lean in and whisper in her ear. Pull her into you, waist to waist, and then maybe push her off, so she feels her buying temperature spike from being around you. This can feel different at first if you're new at this, but over time, it becomes very natural. It's ok to be "Mr. Creepy Touchy Guy" for a night, if you just need to get the hang of it. Rub your hands lightly over her arms, brush a stray hair from her face, and turn up the romantic juice. If any ladies you ask tell you this is too much for someone you just met, go to a bar yourself, and see how men are interacting with women there. The ones most close and touchy are NOT usually boyfriend and girlfriend. If you don't believe me, go ahead and ask them! They usually just met tonight.

You now have the basics of what it takes to begin climbing up the touch ladder with a woman you just met. The more you do this, the easier it'll be to take greater steps like kissing and inviting a woman to go home with you. Go out regularly, and don't fret if you fall flat the first few times. Just have fun.

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