Online Dating Advice for Women - Ladies - Start Your Engines!
submitted: Jun 22nd 2008 |
by: SarahLove |
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If you are having trouble meeting men in real life, maybe it is time to consider online dating. More and more people are doing it, which increases your odds of success. Online dating has a lot of advantages over traditional dating. Christian Carter offers some great tips for women trying their hand at finding love online, a few of which I will cover below.
For starters, when you are hunting for a man online, you have the distinct advantage of being able to screen carefully. In other words, you are in control of the situation. Additionally, you can attract the exact sort of man you want by putting some time and effort into a profile that will attract him.
Your online profile needs to stand out from the crowd, if you want to be noticed. Most profiles are predictable and uninteresting- just read a few to see for yourself. One way to make yourself stand apart is to illustrate your personality by telling stories instead of describing yourself. This will show that you are creative, and will be a refreshing change from the usual run-of-the-mill profile.
One of the first things you will want to do when you set up your profile is to set up an email account that is not in any way linked to your personal email account. This will help you to keep track of your responses, as well as keeping respondents an arm's length away from your personal account. This will also make it easy for you to delete your account, need be.
As important as what you say is what kind of photo you post. Men are visually stimulated even more than women, so you need to make sure your photo sends the right message. Play up your best features, without being dishonest. Don't focus on your cleavage or legs, unless you want to screen out a bunch of creeps who are only interested in one thing. Post a photo that says something about who you are and what you like, as well as showing off your good side.
Keep it light and easy, and above all, positive. Don't list things you hate. Instead, focus on the things you love. Write about what makes you laugh, what you do for fun, and how you want to share that with the right guy. These are the sorts of things that make men want to contact you right off the bat.
Don't trash talk your ex, or other women. This just makes you look insecure and unappealing, and is likely to scare off Mister Right.
If you stick to some of these guidelines in your profile, you will be shocked at how many responses you will get in the fist day. But don't take it from me, go ahead and try it yourself.
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