Online Profile Writing

submitted: Aug 26th 2008 | by: SaraMusfeldt | Total views: 2 | Word Count: 316 | PDF View | Print Article

Online and offline dating have similar basic elements. In both cases you have only seconds to impress the other person. So just like on a first date where table manners are important, well-chosen words are important in your profile.

The point is to have a logical and organized profile. It's not necessary to have a five-paragraph, eloquently written profile, but just like on a date where you need to use your manners you need to keep your profile clean and interesting. For starters, avoid swear words and slang (use them sparingly at least) and stick to the point. Don't bore your reader with too many details.

In addition to short and clean aspects of your profile, you need to be creative. This is a must, and maybe even more important than keeping it to the point.

Don't describe yourself in a clich or generic way. Read the profiles of ten women and men in your area with characteristics similar to yours. Research your written profile by searching out your competitors. In reading these profiles list the things those people mention and notice the pattern, for example, does almost everyone mention travel, interesting books or movies, and Chinese food? Be sure not to include those items in your own profile. Be different.

Now do the reverse. Find ten men or women who you would like to get to know. Read all ten profiles and list the items mentioned. If you find that you share common interests that are somewhat unique, then definitely mention those things in your profile.

The point is that you want to make a good impression so that your potential connections read all of your profile, and are motivated to contact you. You can woo this person later in your e-mails, but for right now just get them interested.

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About the Author

About the Author: Sara Musfeldt operates a blog with dating stories and dating profile tips for everyone. She has also created an online dating advice to help singles everywhere find love.


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