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submitted: Jun 7th 2008 | by: DanTrump | Total views: 2 | Word Count: 477 | |

It always seems like your life has turned perfect for you when you get a gorgeous woman's phone number. Unfortunately, I would wager that 86% of the time, a woman will not call back a man that she gives her number to. A large part of this is because of the phone message he leaves. A woman meets so many men, that no matter how good the interaction was at first, she is going to really size up your phone message to decide if she wants to talk to you again.

Here are the four biggest mistakes most men make when leaving a woman a message...

Mistake #2: Trying too hard to refresh her memory in how she knows you.

A brief reminder is all she needs. You can tell her your name, and where you met her. That's it. If she needs much more than that to remember you, it wasn't going to happen anyway. Don't talk about your clothes, your dreams of the future together, and DEFINITELY don't mention your job.

Mistake #2: Your message is too long

It's amazing how many men will detail their entire day's activities on the answering machine of a woman they just met. She just doesn't care. Even if she is interested in hearing about your whole day, why not just tell her when she calls you back? Oh that's right; you were worried she wasn't going to call you back. And once she can tell you were worried about that, trust me, she ain't calling back. Self-fulfilling prophecy.

Mistake #3: Noisy background when you call

You want your message to be completely clear when she hears your voice on the phone for the first time. If you're at a bar, or on a busy street, or doing dishes, she has to work too hard to hear you, and will not be totally relaxed when she takes your voice in and might even hang up and delete the message without hearing it. Be in a quiet place when you call.

Mistake #4: Asking her to "please" call you back.

You can say "please" at the restaurant, "please" at work, and "please" at the post office, but never say six-letter word when trying to get a woman to call you back. This is because when you say "please," you are implying that she's doing a favor by calling you back. "We'll talk later" or "Give me a call," is fine.

There is definitely no full proof solution to girls not returning phone calls, but if you avoid these major pitfalls, you can expect your callback rate to increase by at least 50%. There is a ton more to the art of "phone game," but you are now ahead of the vast majority of men calling women back for dates.

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