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submitted: Jul 13th 2008 | by: VinDiCarlo | Total views: 1 | Word Count: 989 | |

Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...

Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.

She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't look away)...

She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart...

Ah, the unreachable "10," a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called "10's." In one sense they are another "breed" of woman, but at the same time, it's that kind of thinking that makes them so.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.

First of all, the concept of a "10" is a myth. There is no such thing as a perfect human being. No woman is more "valuable" just because she looks nicer than other women.

A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true "10" and is the one that's perfect for you.

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

One recipe for your failure is if you treat a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier than the others.

Why?

Because every other guy does that.

She knows what you're about and sees you as shallow.

But of course there are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.

Like I said, you shouldn't treat them "differently."

Let me explain it.

You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.

First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.

Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.

There are two types of "10's."

High self esteem, and low self-esteem.

Low self esteem 10's are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, most of their lives they've probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.

It may sound harsh but I call it like that.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)

Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.

These women are motivated to put an extra effort because they know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, the most beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here's the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.

You'll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.

Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you'll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they're not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently... you'll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are bunch of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't spend another year of your life missing out.

Vin

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