Useful Mindsets in Dealing with Male Competition - II

The other important thing I want to talk about is the idea that another man can be more "dominant" than you.

The alpha male during caveman days had a real power - he knows where to get resources like food, and was physically stronger, that he could beat up competitors. The concept of the alpha male is completely obsolete.

But ask yourself if those power still exist today. Every man can survive on his own if he has the source of income - you probably have an access to food and shelter if you're reading this. You're all set.

Plus, in this modern world it is irrelevant to use the physical strength just to beat people up. It's illegal.

You'll always end up losing if you attack another person because the police always win.

If you think about it, you are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!

Just excuse my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???

I recall all the girls I missed out on because I was afraid about some DUDE. And it makes me mad remembering that and knowing that the other guys are dealing with some crap!

When you're on your deathbed, you are going to look back on all the things you did and didn't do. How painful would it be to say "I didn't meet that girl because I was scared of another guy," or "there were so many beautiful women I could've enjoyed, but I didn't even try because I saw them TALKING to another guy."

I don't want you to be like that.

So let's analyze it deeply. You truly don't understand dominance if you are seeing the other guy as more dominant.

There's a better focus. Rather than to see yourself NOT dominant when you are comparing who is more dominant between you and the other guy.

You must first THINK like a dominant man in order to become dominant. And dominant men doesn't care who is more dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is that they are doing or want.

So you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Instead of worrying about whether or not he's more dominant than you, focus on the girls.

I seldom even acknowledge other guys, because it's proven to be just a waste of time. 9 out of 10 women don't even know the guy - they just meet him.

Or if they do, maybe ONE of the girls know him, and barely the rest know him.

Normally, seldom for women to go out with a guy they are dating, more often they would like to bring with them a guy that is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.

Besides, if he IS with one of the girls, that means he's NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.

If you are concerned with who's the alpha male, then you are NOT the alpha male by definition. As a matter of fact, it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern era.

Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don't allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!

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