Here is How To Save Your Relationship and Make Your Partner Stay!
submitted: Sep 4th 2008 |
by: G.Thompson |
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How To Make Your Spouse Stay !
Bringing back a Partner is a lot easier to do when you figure out why people leave and why people stay in relationships.
1. Everybody has needs that we want to be fulfilled.
We all have heartfelt needs and we usually will seek a person to be in our life that will fulfill those emotional needs. This person makes you feel good when you are around them. You find that when you are around them you can convey new things together. It all seems new inasmuch as you haven't shared these experiences with this person before. Even something as quaint as a luncheon will take on a new magical charm.
New people bring new thoughts and experiences. This means you can learn or even teach someone something different. This is on the whole how we advance as a person.
Test this out. The next time you meet someone do something that makes them feel good. Now think, how did it make you feel? Empowered right? It is human nature we all want this feeling. In your relationship you have to allow your partner to experience this same feeling as well. We have the desire to feel needed. We want to feel appreciated.
When this feeling is absent then this is when a Girl friend may leave. There will always be someone else who will give your Companion this feeling of empowerment. Someone is always waiting in the woods waiting on you to mess up.
We all develop bad habits over time. If you have, it may be time to change some of your bad habits, especially, if you want to save your relationship.
2. Everybody enjoys the feeling of being special. Feeling worthwhile to someone.
If you want to save your relationship and keep your partner you have to remind your partner just how much you love and respect for them. Tell them this during those just because moments. Not when you hope to benefit from something. Never forget that what you won't do for love someone else is always willing to do. Especially make your mate feel special. Remember how you behaved on your first date. Well do it again, do it everyday. You won't have to worry about your partner craving.
3. What makes your partner happy? What are their wants?
Believe it or not you and your Spouse probably have a lot in common. So if you understand yourself better it will help you connect to your companion even easier. One thing you have in common is the desire to grow. If you want to save your relationship, you need to allow it to grow to new horizons. When we are able to sprout and develop as a human being in a relationship then we want to stay in the relationship for as long as we can. It would be a rare situation that would cause a person who feels full filled in a relationship to leave his or her relationship.
Be active socially, take a class, read the paper, or magazines,travel to new places. Keep your brain fresh and full of new ideas and thoughts to share with your companion.Have fun and stay in date modus operandi. Sample these growth opportunities together, but also let your Companion grasp and advance independently. No one wants to be stifled.
4. How are you doing in your relationship? What grade would you get?
If graded on your relationship, how would you do? Everybody wants an A. We all want to feel like we are doing well in our relationship. This means we want to feel like we can keep our companion happy without sacrificing our soul. To encourage your Girl friend to stay in the relationship or save your relationship make sure you give them the care and understanding they deserve. Everyday is test day.
5. Life needs to have meaning.
In order to be truly happy in life we need a reason to live. We need a purpose. Some purposes are small some large. Sometimes we don't even recognize the reason,but it is there. Don't try to control what makes your partner happy. Let them seek their individual happiness, whether its to be a firefighter or a ditch digger.
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