I Just Cannot Trust A Stranger
submitted: Sep 5th 2008 |
by: DanSewinski |
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Word Count: 520 |
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Everybody who's fallen in love knows how easy it is to get swept off their feet and stop thinking rationally. The saying, "Love is blind" is absolutely true. Everybody has had that feeling at one time or another. There's nothing like it. You feel like your feet hardly touch the ground and you feel more energetic and excited than you have since you were a kid.
You'll often notice that you have a silly smile on your face for no particular reason, and you are so caught up in your feelings for the other person that you would be oblivious if the world stopped spinning. However, how confident are you that the person is really free?
What phone number do they want you to use? Will they only volunteer their cell phone number? Have you been invited back to their place? Do they sometimes need to leave urgently when the two of you are doing something?
Do you ever think that maybe they are not being completely open with you, when you take a few minutes to think about it? This is something that isn't easy to deal with. The chance that the person could possibly be lying to you or even married already is something you just don't want to think about. It happens to someone every day, though.
If you are unsure, there are a few things you can do to tell whether or not it is alright to continue on or if you need to have caution. Pay attention to the person. Do they act like they have other things to do? Are they always checking the time or do they always have to leave suddenly? If so, they may have lied to their families and have given themselves so much time to spend with you before they have to return to their 'other lives.'
Has he introduced you to his family member? Chances are that he's unattached if he wants you to meet his parents. If an appropriate amount of time has passed and he still hasn't brought it up, you may start to wonder about him.
Another investigative step to take is doing a reverse phone number search online. Just enter their number and it will give you their address, or vice versa. You could learn information about them you didn't know before, and you can also find out other tidbits about them.
You can find their marriage or divorce certificates so that you know if they are married or not. You can find out if they have ever been charged with a crime and much more. This is one great way to ease your mind.
Sometimes even people who are not married are reluctant to have you meet their family or see where they live. It could be embarrassment or family issues or fear of commitment or something else entirely. At least, if the person is single, you know you are not hurting someone else simply by being in a relationship with this person. If you are not certain what the situation is, hopefully the information above will help you figure out what to do.
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