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submitted: May 2nd 2008 | by: JohnnyWhite | Total views: 1 | Word Count: 480 | |

Sometimes when you suspect that your lover is cheating on you it's based solely on your instincts. While you should trust your instincts you still need some proof that your lover is cheating on you. Asking them and accusing them of cheating is the wrong way to go about it until you do have proof.

One of the better ways to start your investigation is by looking for the signs that your lover is cheating on you. There will be signs if you look hard enough. In this article were going to go over some of the signs that your lover might accidentally give off.

Sign #1 Hides Credit Cards: People who cheat are often spending money in places where they shouldn't be. You may see a purchase for some lingerie. Did he ever give you that lingerie? You may see a purchase for new golf clubs. Did your wife ever give you those golf clubs? What about hotels? What about dinners at fancy restaurants? There is lots of dirt to be dug up and found on ones credit card statements.

Sign #2 Watch Those Love Marks: You may see that your lover has marks on their body. Do they have scratches on their back or neck? Do they have a hicky? Maybe they even have an unusual bruise? This is almost a sure sign. They will have to get very creative to come up a good excuse for something like this.

Sign #3 Change In Sex Drive: If there is a sudden change in your spouses sex drive then you probably have a problem. The only exception of this is if they are ill. Even if they aren't cheating yet there is a good chance your lover will at some point if they are not satisfied in this area.

Sign #4: Install Spy Cams: You may want to consider installing a spy camera in certain locations. For example, would you be able to hook one up in your lovers car? Can you get to their office and install one? Could you plan a trip a way from home and install a spy camera in your home? These are all options that you can consider.

Sign #5: No Connection: When your lover starts cheating you will start to feel less connected to him or her. Those long conversations you had are long gone. Your sex life has probably gone with it. When was the last time you went out together? Has he or she become less romantic. These are things that can occur over time even if your lover is not cheating. But these are still signs of a relationship going bad.

One sign will hardly be enough to prove that your lover is cheating on you. Once you see a sign you will need to investigate into things a little bit further. The more signs you see the more you will need to be worried.

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