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submitted: Jun 18th 2008 | by: TomasN.Anderson | Total views: 1 | Word Count: 811 | |

Research Study Reveal Women Love Sex As Much As Men The title statistic was determined by Dr. Paige Padgett at the University of Texas. Padgett's 2007 study entitled "Personal Safety and Sexual Safety for Women Using Online Personal Ads" was published in a widely respected journal of the National Sexuality Research Center (Research & Social Policy Journal).

Dr. Padgett's research involved seven hundred forty (740) women who had put dating profiles online seeking men. The result of the study: Earthshattering!! Thirty-three percent (33%) of the women daters had sex on the 1st date. Even more shocking, seventy-seven percent (77%) of them didn't use a condom.

Virtual Intimacy Theory Dr. Padgett did not conclude that these women were sluts. Conversely, she found that women who would usually be careful did in fact participate in unprotected intercourse because they were lulled into a sense of virtual intimacy.

Padgett concludes that "virtual intimacy" was fostered by a high level of disclosure and frequency of e-mail exchanges with the men they eventual slept with on the 1st date. She discovered that before meeting face-to-face, the women exchanged information about their backgrounds, likes & dislikes, and even sexual preferences.

Dr. Padgett concludes it was the exchange of personal information that created "virtual intimacy". The women created a pseudo-relationship (whether or not one really existed) which resulted in sexual intimacy more quickly than usual.

So What Does This Mean For Guys? The take home message for guys: Start Online Dating Now. It's cheaper than clubbing & bar hopping and you'll get laid more often on a 1st date, but definitely use condoms!

My take on Padgett and her study: Her interpretation of the data is overly paternalistic and paints women as helpless creatures taken in by men that create a sphere of "virtual intimacy". Bullshit!

Using Common Sense and Logic to interpret Padgett's study reveals that she is wrong in her conclusions. Women know what they want: An attractive male that meets their dating criteria. They choose one or several from the many that email them. Then they question these candidates and weed out those who don't meet their dating criteria. For that successful candidate who doesn't disqualify himself: It's naked time!

If you scrutinize the data you'll see what's really occurring here. The women in Dr. Padgett's study are the ones speeding up the sexual relationship. The women in her study (and all online women daters) try to gather as much info about their potential mates as possible. And they do all of this info aggregation before meeting face-to-face, by email or over the telephone.

Why? Easy: to convince themselves to engage in sexy time as soon as possible. When a woman becomes convinced that a man meets her dating criteria she will have sex with him. Dr. Padgett's study reveals that the women had determined that they would have sex with their dates right out of the gates before their face-to-face meetings. The women had gathered enough info to make this determination before even seeing their dates in person!

Putting Padgett's Study To Work For You. The bottom line here is: women want sex just as much as you do. But, and this is the most important factor I've gleaned from Padgett's study and from my own online dating experiences: Women want to convince themselves that you are a Quality Guy and that you meet their criteria.

This is where so many guys shoot themselves in the foot. They think that they must have (1) money; (2) power; or (3) fame to succeed with women. Simply not true. Here's my secret that is backed up by Padgett's findings: To succeed in online dating the only thing you need to do is not disqualify yourself. Women have questions, yes. They have criteria, yes.

However, women only require that you reply to their questions or hold yourself out in fairly open manner in order for them to say to themselves, "Hey this gentleman seems normal, he's available, and he's mine." At this point, they'll grant themselves permission to have sex with you.

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