How to Manage Your Time when Meeting women - Part 2
Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
There's another societal factor going on, that I call the "doofus dad" syndrome. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the "dad" or "boyfriend" or "husband" is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are "better."
If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.
But here's the thing - if you are giving a woman too much time, you won't be present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your "half-assed" attention.
When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.
After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.
This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.
Now my girlfriends can't get enough of me - in fact, I don't GIVE THEM "enough."
You see, "enough" would mean, "overexposure" to me, and women can't be pulled to what they already have.
The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don't recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.
Just be real with her - don't spend more time that you want. no need of games.
Focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women. Be a man on the go.
Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I'll have to cover in another newsletter.
It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and "putting up with" women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
Women aren't property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.
It doesn't mean that you can "keep" the women if you invest all your time with her.
I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you're willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That's ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.
You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.
If you are in the mental habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you, you will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first.
That's why I set out on a journey to discover and develop the Attraction Code. It's all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real 'you' emerge from within.
And there's no need for us to impose our goals onto you. Given the proper guidance, I know you are able to do that for yourself.
Vin
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