Is Internet Dating Not Happening For You? Try This...

Have you ever noticed that most Internet profiles start with "I am" or "I want?" And although you're the one looking for true love, your profile shouldn't be only about you.

Sandhriel states: "Online Dating is not about the person posting the ad, but about the person they are looking for; this is called Compound Interest. You can achieve success when you 'Pay it Forward.'"

"What do I have to pay forward?" you may wonder.

Let's think about this for a minute. With more than 10 million people registered on Internet Dating sites, bringing in over $2 billion dollars per year, the likelihood that you'll be spending more time weeding through profiles and rejecting people and getting rejected yourself, rather than dating Mr. or Mrs. Right. You can also look at it this way: once your hot and bubbling profile is public, you'll spend most of your time glancing through other people's profiles, only to formulate "thanks but no thanks" messages.

So while you're waiting for your true love, earn some karma points by learning how to gracefully say "thanks, but no thanks," because that is what you'll spend most of your time doing on the Internet.

"What you give out will undoubtedly come back to you ten fold. We tend to forget that no one should have to earn our kindness and respect, everyone deserves these free gifts from us for the mere fact that they are fellow human beings existing on the same plane, breathing the same air, enjoying the same rays of sunshine, walking a similar journey called life, and recognizing and allowing that everyone is looking for one and the same thing: Unconditional LOVE," Chaszey says.

You have to show willingness and devote some time to learn how to send graceful rejection e-mails to your potential suiters. They should show effort, be filled with grace and let the other person feel your kindness. "Don't ever forget that the other person has feelings too and that the kindness of your words may just heal a broken heart. Mostly your tender e-mail will bring you karma points that will multiply through the concept of compound interest, and life will take on a whole new meaning for you. Tough to explain, but so worth the effort."

These points add to your character and create a new, stronger and kinder you that undoubtedly will attract the right person you so deserve.

So next time you want to hit that preset button sending a "no thanks" message, think about taking the time to read the person's profile and sending them a reply filled with kindness, because they really deserve it.

Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach and helps Online Daters create sizzling results. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.

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Before you create your internet dating profile, make sure you get Chaszey's free tips on how to create a sizzling profile that will get you results. You can download the free report and more at www.yourinternetdatingcoach.com.